at the moment comments and subplebbits keep updating forever, and feeds never get garbage collected, which is especially bad for nested replies feeds.
think of how to stop updating comments / subplebbits:
- if the user leaves the post page, and doesn't have subscriptions / notifications, can stop updating after 1h (high probability of coming back within the hour)
- if the user leaves a feed, can stop updating after 1h (high probability of coming back within the hour)
- to achieve this, must know when the user leaves a thread, not sure if possible to know when a hook unmounts completely